100+ Conversation Starters For Couples

Whether in a short or long relationship, you need to get to that comfort level where you can talk about everything without feeling awkward, guilty, or uneasy. If you are unsure how to start your conversations, this article lists plenty of conversation starters you can choose. 

Ideas For Conversation Starters:

It can be intimidating to have a meaningful conversation so try to be relaxed and stress-free when you talk to each other. You can also try taking a long walk or sitting on the terrace while you talk about the little things that matter. This will increase intimacy and understanding.

  • If we were teenagers in college, do you think we would have met each other?
  • How good are you at understanding people at first glance? 
  • What are the things in a relationship that you will never negotiate?
  • What quality in a person drives you away from them?
  • What relationship do you share with food?
  • What relationship do you share with sex?
  • What is the most important thing you expect from a relationship?
  • What is that one thing you wish you had never said or done?
  • What is the one thing in a partner that most likely irritates you?
  • If you wrote an autobiography, what would you call it?
  • Do you think God exists?
  • What is the true meaning of love for you?
  • Do you think your life would be empty without your friends?
  • What things do you think are common between us?
  • Which three adjectives best define you?
  • What are the three things on your bucket list you want to fulfill this year?
  • What is that one trend that you regret following?
  • What is the one thing you miss most about your childhood?
  • What do you think of marriage?
  • What are you thinking about our relationship right now?
  • What did you do with the money you received as your first salary?
  • What was your favorite children’s story?
  • If you had a time machine, which year of your life would you like to go back to?
  • Which song reminds you of me?
  • If you wanted to get a tattoo, what would it be?
  • What was your first impression of me?
  • What does having a perfect date mean to you?
  • What are you most grateful for this year?
  • What is that childhood memory that always puts a smile on your face?
  • What does success mean to you?

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 Ways to Be Successful in Life:

  • You must have a vision.
  • You have to be consistent.
  • You have to change your environment.
  • You have to avoid criticism and bullying.
  • You have to learn from your mistakes.
  • You never make excuses.
  • You must always be prepared to go the extra mile.
  • You must always be open to learning.
  • You have to be smart.
  • You have to be grateful.
  • What/Who is your biggest strength in life?
  • Do you care about the economic status of your partner?
  • Which qualities in us do you think make us compatible?
  • What does family mean to you?
  • Who was your first crush?
  • When was the first time you had a crush on someone?
  • What is that one memory in our relationship that you will cherish forever?
  • What is that one secret you have never told anyone?
  • What keeps you motivated in the tough times of your life?
  • What comforts your mind when you are sad or distressed?
  • Who are those three people whose behavior towards you matters to you a lot?
  • On a scale of 1 to 10, how attractive do you think you are?
  • On a scale of 1 to 10, how attractive do you think I am?
  • What is your goal in life?
  • If you had all the money in this world, what is that one thing you would never do?
  • What is your biggest regret in our relationship?
  • Is there anyone whom you envy a lot?
  • What is that one thing that you cannot live without?
  • If you suddenly became famous someday, what changes in your life would you notice first?
  • What is that one lesson you would like to pass on to the next generation?
  • What are your views on open relationships?
  • Who is your emotional pillar in life?
  • Which actor would play me in a movie?
  • Which actor would play you in a movie?
  • If you could have three wishes fulfilled, what would they be?
  • Do you have any saucy fantasies you want me to know?
  • What is the weirdest thing you’ve ever seen in a dream?
  • If you had a sex tape, what would you name it?
  • Do you think we were born in the wrong era?

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Things to Learn from Our Previous Generation:

  • Have an attachment to things and people.
  • Have courage in adverse situations.
  • Consider family your priority.
  • Give importance to love and affection.
  • Laugh more.
  • Make time for your priorities.
  • Don’t fight for small things.
  • Love your parents.
  • Sacrifice for your loved ones. 
  • Never be too self-obsessed.
  •  Which actor would you like to take you out on a date?
  • What is the craziest thing you have done with a partner?
  •  If there ever was an alien attack, what would be your strategy to survive it?
  •  If you ever made a film, what would it be about?
  •  Which movie can you watch every day without getting bored?
  •  Which part of your body is super sensual?
  •  What is your biggest pet peeve?
  •  What is my sexiest feature?
  • What would you do with 10- million dollars?
  • What would you have? A hotdog or a sandwich?
  • Which animal would you like to talk to you?
  • Do you want to start a secret conspiracy?
  • Which fictional character would you have been best friends with?
  • What would you do first if you could rule the world for a day?
  • Do you stalk your crush on Facebook?
  • Do you have an anonymous Instagram account?
  • What is the silliest thing you know?
  • What is that one thing you regret spending money on?
  • If you could change your gender, what would you do?
  • If not human, what would you want to be reincarnated as?
  • Do you ever picture us having a family?
  •  Do you think we would be nice parents?
  • Why did you fall in love with me?
  • Do you think our relationship will change if we get married?
  • What adventure do you think we should try out together?
  •  What is the best thing about our married life?
  • What impact did I have on your life?
  •  What are your views on our sexual compatibility?
  • What do you miss most about being single?

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Things Your Teenage Self Must Know:

  • Have patience.
  • Be courageous.
  • Worry less.
  • Smile from your heart.
  • Love yourself
  • Respect everyone.
  • Forgive and forget.
  • Trust yourself.
  • Don’t hurt someone.
  • Don’t think you are dumb or inefficient.
  • What would you say to your teenage self?
  • What is your favorite romantic gesture of mine?
  •  If you wrote a book on our relationship, what would you call it?
  • What type of romantic are you?
  • What is the most annoying thing about me?
  • What is that one outfit you want me to wear for the rest of my life?
  • What is that one outfit you would wear for the rest of your life?
  • What is your favorite vacation memory?
  •  Did you want to be raised differently?
  • What is your biggest insecurity?
  • What things do you want to do that I would disagree with?
  • Have you ever felt the spark in our relationship getting lost?
  • Do you support flirting with others while in a relationship?
  • What is your idea for our dream house?
  • Why did you come to the city?
  • Do you love living in the city?
  • Would you have a house in the mountains or by the beach?
  • What is your dream occupation?
  • What are the three main things you notice in your partner while on a date?
  • What are you most proud of in life?
  • What does having fun mean to you?
  • Tell me some of your hidden talents.
  • If you had a gap year, what would you spend it doing?
  • Who is your favorite singer?
  • Who is your favorite writer?
  • Which is your favorite football team?
  • Who is your favorite football player?
  • What does a perfect holiday mean to you?
  • Are you into something artistic?

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Artistic Careers You Must Check Out:

  • Graphic designer.
  • Animator.
  • Art Director.
  • Interior Designer
  • Illustrator
  • Art Teacher
  • Architect
  • Fine artist
  • Industrial designer
  • Fashion Designer
  • Do you have a favorite painter?
  • What three things would I definitely find if I looked into your bag?
  • Are you bothered by what people think of you?
  • Which wildest thing should we do again?
  • What is your best memory of a sensual time we spent together?
  • What turns you on?
  • What are your weirdest sexual fantasies?
  • How do you prefer to start a romantic conversation?
  • What does life mean to you?
  • Which people will you forever be grateful to for making you the person you are?
  • What experiences have helped you a lot in life?
  • When did you last cry?
  • What did you say to someone that you think was the most hurtful thing you’ve ever done?
  • What would you want me to change about myself?
  • What dish do you want me to cook for you?
  • Have you ever broken up with your best friend?
  • What makes you easily troubled?
  • Do you get angry easily?
  • What does happiness in a relationship mean to you?
  • Have you ever struggled with mental trauma?
  • When did you receive your first proposal?
  • Do you see our relationship going somewhere?
  • What is your love language?
  • What is the most romantic film you’ve ever seen?
  • Do you believe that soulmates exist?
  • When we are not together, what do you miss most about me?
  • What do you think of long-distance relationships?
  • When we are retired, how would you want us to spend our time together?
  • Which part of my body are you most attracted to?
  • What do you prefer more- morning sex or night sex?
  • What is your favorite sex position?
  • What does bringing good to bed mean to you?
  • Do you like spanking?

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Things to Put on Your Sex Bucket List:

  • Experimenting with different kinks
  • Going to a nude beach
  • Having sex in a graveyard.
  • Getting a footjob.
  • Enjoying sensual couples massages.
  • Filming yourself while making out.
  • Having sex on a pool table.
  • Having sex on a boat.
  • Reenacting your favorite sex scenes from movies.
  • Using food during sexual activities.
  • Tell them how much they mean to you. They need to know they are important in your life and you are lucky to have them. 
  • Feel free to communicate your feelings. If you don’t like something about your partner or think something in your relationship needs to be given special attention, you have to talk it out. The best way to solve a problem is to have open communication and discuss the matter, respecting each other’s opinions.
  • It’s nice to be appreciated and validated by your partner. So ask them what they think of you and the relationship you share. This will help you keep your relationship clear and honest. You will know what they think of you as a partner, and this will improve your relationship to a large extent.
  • Say something cute. If you are a romantic partner, say something adorable to make your partner feel loved. Being cuddly and lovey-dovey never goes out of style; it just improves your relationship.

Things Not to Do After a Fight with Your Partner:

  • Never disrespect each other.
  • Don’t possess an all-or-nothing perspective.
  • Don’t give each other the cold shoulder.
  • Don’t hold on to their comments.
  • Sometimes, only saying sorry does nothing.
  • Never make excuses to avoid the situation.
  • Don’t walk away without finding a solution.
  • Don’t try to be physically intimate if you are not feeling it.
  • Don’t focus on the fight’s cause too much.
  • Don’t beat yourself up.

Conclusion

These ideas will help you have a happy and fulfilling relationship when you can talk to each other freely without fear of judgment. Conversations are important if it’s your first date, if you are in a live-in or long-distance relationship, or if you have been married for a long time. [Infographic Content]

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