How To Get A Guy Notice You: 15 Ways

Do you like someone? Do you want him to notice πŸ‘€ you? Do you walk past each other, and yet he doesn’t look at you? That’s depressing. But don’t you worry, I have the best advice for you! Because I know how to get a guy to notice you! 

We all like someone, and that someone might not notice us. And that hurts; come on, we all have been there and done that! But that doesn’t have to stay that way. So let’s dive into 🀿 some of the best advice I have for you, shall we?

But in order to do that, you need to know how to be socially active and find ways to impress people, so I recommend the book, “How to Win Friends and Influence People” by Dale Carnegie. 

Here is How To Get A Guy Notice You

Looks like someone’s having a crush, and they’re afraid to tell it to them……..yeah, you! I mean, come on, we have all been there, alright? You can get quite desperate to get a guy’s attention if you like them. 

But if you have ruled out the option to tell them how you feel, then you have to put a little effort here and there to get his attention, and you’re wondering how to get him to notice you. 

Don’t you worry, my friend, I am here just for that.☺️

Here are a few tips that I have coined especially for you, my dear friend!⬇️

Be the ball of energy.

The simplest way to understand this point is, for example, there’s a girl who’s shy and quiet, but there’s another girl who’s so full of energy that the room lightens up when she enters. Who’s going to be noticed first? 

Yes, you are right! The girl with smiles and positive energy. So, if you are looking to get a guy’s attention, this works like magic!🌸

Add him on social media, girls!

There is no harm in sending a request on multiple social media platforms like Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat, and many others. Don’t be too dejected when he doesn’t accept them right away. 

I mean, he wouldn’t have known you if you were looking for ways to get him to notice you, right? But he will eventually accept your friend request, and he might even add you back!😏

Remember the small details he posts on social media.

Social media is one platform where you can get to know a person well. This way, you can get to know him as well. Pay attention to the small information that he posts. You know where he goes often, what he loves to do, or which instrument he plays. 

So the next time you meet him, you can pick a topic so you both can engage in a fun conversation.🀭

Show off your talents, girl!

Your talent takes you a long way, and as the quote goes,

Β “Your talent is God’s gift to you. What you do with it is your gift back to God.”

β€” Leo Buscaglia

Be yourself and show off what you are good at! You might be good at playing instruments, or you paint well; post all of these on your social media, and he will notice them. He might even be impressed by it and would comment on how good you are! 

Who doesn’t want someone who’s got impressive skills? Go ahead and flaunt your skills, my ladies!🫑

Your confidence is bound to get his attention!

Confidence is the key if you want a guy’s attention, my dear ladies! You might not be a social butterfly or an extrovert, but confidence will take you a long way! Being confident is bound to get his attention. 

Wear an outfit you feel confident in, or walk into the room like you own it. Your inner confidence will impress him even more, ladies!πŸ˜‰

Have a positive attitude, dear ladies!

As the quote says,

“A positive attitude causes a chain reaction of positive thoughts, events, and outcomes. It is a catalyst, and it sparks extraordinary results.”

β€” Wade Boggs

Optimism and a positive attitude are more contagious than you think! Don’t be a buzzkill or a wet blanket who’s always a Downey, as it will mess up others’ moods as well. Having a positive attitude is such an impressive quality you can have, ladies! 

Not only will you get him to notice you, but he will even make efforts to get to know you more!πŸ’«

First impressions are your best impression; so true!

You don’t want to trip and fall when you walk towards him or have leafy vegetables stuck between your teeth. This will do more damage than you think. 

So put some effort into looking your best, take a look at yourself in the mirror, and make sure it is one of your best looks. Make the best impression, and he’ll love to be friends with you.⭐️

You have to be unique, my dear ladies!

Nobody is going to be interested in you if you are just like others. Be unique, have fun, and creative skills that are impressive. Make yourself stand out in most situations. 

Be yourself and be genuine while doing so. Make sure you enjoy what you are doing. So he will know that you’re different and will love to know more about it!πŸ₯°

Let’s quickly take a quiz to see if he has noticed you or not, shall we?

  • When in a group discussion, does he turn to you or engage in a conversation with you?
  1. Yes! Always.
  2. Not always.
  3. He doesn’t even know I am there.
  • Does he text you frequently or talk to you when you walk past each other?
  1. Yes, he does!
  2. Not frequently.
  3. Not at all.
  • Did he introduce you to his friends?
  1. Yes, his friends totally ship us.
  2. Just once.
  3. Nope, not at all.
  • Is he flirtatious when he talks to you?
  1. He is!
  2. Depends on his mood.
  3. Not once did he flirt.
  • Does he get nervous when he’s around you?
  1. I see him fidgeting with his hands or stuttering while he’s talking to me.
  2. I don’t know.
  3. Nope!

So, how did the quiz go? Do you now have an idea if he has already noticed you or not? If not, don’t worry. That is why I am here! I will help you in getting him to notice you!

Cut the desperate act!

Being desperate about getting his attention will only make you look…….desperate. What I mean is you will look like a lost puppy who follows others. Don’t be desperate, please. 

You being desperate will only disgust him, and don’t be surprised if you land on his blocked list. Don’t tell me I didn’t warn you. Respect his personal space and know your limits as well.πŸ’―

Ask him for his help.

You can be a little clumsy or struggle to get a few things done. You can ask him for help, but remember not to always bug him to get your things done; this is not impressive. 

If he rushes to help you, accept his help and thank him later. He will like it that you are ready to take his help rather than acting too independently. All of these are great ways you can get his attention.πŸ™‚

Make him laugh, ladies!

Make him laugh, and he is yours because,

“Laughter is the brush that sweeps away the cobwebs of the heart.”

β€” Mort Walker

Who doesn’t want to be around someone who has a great sense of humor? People with a great sense of humor just make your day better. Make him laugh; make him crave your presence when he is low. 

Be yourself and be funny; he will laugh at your jokes. If you make him laugh too often, he will love to spend time with you!🫠

Eye contact, ladies, eye contact!

Damn, I cannot stress enough how much eye contact will help you here! Hold eye contact for more than a moment or longer than usual. But remember not to look creepy while doing so; we don’t want him running for the hills, right? 

He will also know that you are interested in him, and if he is too, then it is good for you, ladies!πŸ˜ƒ

Have a few common interests!

One positive aspect, if the both of you have common interests, is that you can talk for hours on the topics that both of you love. Initiate a conversation with him about his hobbies and share yours as well. 

This way, you will not have to spend time in awkwardness or silence. Talk about things you both are passionate about and then observe how interested he gets in the conversation.☺️


Even though these tips won’t help you in getting his attention overnight, it will happen at the right time. Know when the time is right, and shoot your shot, ladies! If it doesn’t go your way, maybe it wasn’t meant for you. 

Be yourself and be confident; these are enough for everyone to notice you, not just the guy you like!🫢

So that is everything I have for you! Let me know if you want more of such information! Drop a few comments if you found this useful and finally got your man to notice you! So for now, adios amigos!

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