Falling in love is one of the greatest feelings that a person feels. Every person in this world wants to fall in love with someone and spend the rest of their days with them.
Being in a relationship feels amazing, especially during the initial stage of the relationship.
Here are the following vital stages of falling in love
There are several stages in a relationship that gradually leads to falling in love. All these stages lead to a happy relationship in the end.
However, not everyone can clear these stages and end up separated even before beginning their relationship.
You are attracted to them
This is the first stage of any relationship where you feel attracted to the person. It means that you like them and want to spend more time with them. You start to focus and them, want to be with them, talk to them and go on dates with them.
If everything goes well, then you can proceed to the next stage. As you keep spending time with the person, you will start falling in love with them.
At this stage, you will do anything to win the heart of the person and make them love you back.
Start paying attention to your looks
Once you get attracted to someone, you will start getting anxious whenever you are near that person. You will start thinking a lot about how you look, how you talk and how you behave.
You will try to look as good as possible when you are near that person.
At this stage, you will start paying attention to your looks to make that person notice you. You will do anything to win the heart of that person.
You may even start doing a lot of shopping a lot after you start liking that person.
Feel awkward whenever around that person
Whenever you are around the person you are attracted to, you will be having a very hard time. You won’t be able to focus on anything and will feel very awkward.
You will start thinking about things like how you look, how you talk, and so on.
You will do anything to get the attention of the person you like which can often get awkward sometimes. Since it is the beginning of the relationship, this awkwardness will stay whenever you two spend time together.
Will feel excited around that person
As you progress through the steps of falling in love, you will notice that whenever you are around that person, you get excited. You start remembering that person’s smell, smile, voice, and so on.
You love everything about that person and want to spend more time with them.
You will start thinking about that person all the time and will have sleepless nights. It’s perfectly fine and is one of the viral stages of falling in love. As time flows by, you will get used to the person and will stay normal.
A connection is formed
After you start spending some time with the person, you will start to feel that a connection is being formed between you two.
The two of you begin to understand each other better. As you spend more time, the connection grows and you two grow closer.
After some time, the connection between you two will get stronger and you will become more comfortable with that person.
You feel happy around them
As you get comfortable with that person and spend more time with them, you will feel happy whenever you are around them. Every time you two spend time together, you will have fun together.
You can be yourself and the person who loves the way you are. Both of you will enjoy each other’s company and spend hours talking to each other.
As time passes by, you will become more open and will share your feelings with that person. You will want more and will always keep thinking about that person. It’s a sign that you are falling in love with that person.
You learn a lot about that person
As the stages progress and more time you spend with them, you will begin to learn a lot about that person. You will know everything about them like their flaws, weaknesses, likes and dislikes, character, and so on.
You get more comfortable around them and will eventually lower your guard when you are around them.
After you learn so much about that person, you will see whether you two are compatible with each other or not. After some time, you will keep falling in love with a person and will spend more time with them.
Desire more from each other
Now that you know so much about them, you will get ready for the next step of falling in love. You know everything about that person and can see whether or not you should start a relationship with them.
After you make up your mind, you will be ready for a commitment and take your next step in the relationship.
You will drop all your defenses and will start desiring that person. You will do anything for that person and will always be there for them. You will have a hard time without them as you miss them and just want to be with them.
You become over-protective
Now that you two are so close to each other, you will become overprotective. You will monitor every activity of the person, check their social media accounts, people they talk to, and so on.
You will get jealous of every little thing that you find out.
This is the stage where fights are common due to jealousy and lack of trust. You will get upset for not getting early replies, or no calls, or being late for dates. It will drive you mad and may even shout at them due to frustration. It is common in every relationship and happens with everyone.
Start trusting each other
Now that you two have come this far, you will start trusting them and there will be no more jealousy. There is no more pressure as you are no longer trying to impress them. You will start being yourself and will be normal.
You will lower your defense and will become more open with them. You will love their flaws and strength and will accept them the way they are.
This is the golden stage of a relationship where you two will completely in love with each other. After this stage, things will get more serious as you two get ready to take on the next steps.
Start sharing each other’s secrets
After spending so much time and numerous dates, you two are now totally in love with each other. There are no more boundaries between you two and begun trusting each other.
You will no longer feel jealous as the trust between you two grows.
Both of you will share secrets as you trust them. All your defenses will be lowered down as you can now depend on that person for anything. You are even ready to give your life for that person in the name of love.
Things get serious
This is the final stage of falling in love that every couple experiences. After so much time being together, both of you now trust each other and are comfortable. There are no more secrets between you two and share everything.
This shows that you two are totally in love with each other.
Things get more serious now as the two of you will start planning for your future together. Gone are the days when you two were carefree and just having fun. You will now get more serious as you start planning for your future with that special person.
Hints that you are falling in love
Several stages take place when you start falling in love with someone. But how will you know if you are falling in love with someone? Love is very hard to identify. What if you are just attracted to the person and are not in love with them?
Finding out the trust is important as it will help you determine how you need to take your next steps. Here are the following hints that you should look for if you are falling in love:
You are happy around them
If you are in love with someone, you will feel happy whenever you are around them. Even if you are having a bad mood, they will always put up a smile on your face. Spending time with them feels very good as you feel very happy.
This is a sign that you like that person very much and want to spend more time with them. It is the first step everyone experiences when they are in love.
Get excited when around them
When you are in love with someone, you get very excited when you are around them. Out of excitement, you will do so many things trying to impress them. Sometimes, it can lead to awkward situations. But sometimes, it works and that person will enjoy your funny talks.
Even if you have done something a million times, you will want to do it again with that person.
You will start doing things which you don’t like just for the sake of that person. These are signs that you are in love with them and are ready to do anything for them.
You keep thinking about them all the time
As you fell in love with someone, you will start thinking about them all the time. You will have many sleepless nights as you constantly think about them. The first thing in the morning that you want to do is talk to them.
All of these signs indicate that you are totally in love with that person. Even a day apart will feel like forever to you.
All you want to do is keep talking with them and spend as much time together as possible. You will also start trying to look better to impress that person.
You will get jealous
If you get jealous whenever someone talks with your crush, then it’s completely normal. In every relationship, a bit of jealousy exists and indicates that you love someone. However, it gets worse when jealousy turns into an obsession as it can result in a bad relationship.
If you are getting jealous, then it’s a sign that you like that person and are in love. If that’s the case, then you should talk to that person and express your feelings.
If the feeling is mutual, then you two can start dating each other.
Become more affectionate towards them
When you are in love with someone, you are attracted to them. You like the way they talk, their voice, expressions, and so on. You love everything about them and can listen to them talking all day.
All of this shows that you are getting affectionate towards them and are totally in love with them.
You will get closer to them and start spending a lot of time together. All you want is to spend time with them and be together as long as possible. Your affection for them is a sign of love and shows that you are ready to take your next step.
You are lowering your guard
A person never lowers their guard around anyone, except for certain people. Whenever you talk to people, you always keep your guards up to protect yourself. But when you are around someone you like, you will notice that you lower your guard.
It shows that you trust them and are comfortable around them. It is also a hint, which indicates that you are in love with that person.
You will share your secrets, flaws, and weaknesses with them.
You will even introduce them to your family and friends. If you witness all these signs, then it’s a clear sign that you are in love with that person. All you need to do is express your feelings to them.