Relationships are a pure bond of understanding and compromises. But these things can be well experienced with the correct partner. But sometimes we make mistakes in our judgment. But certain circumstances arise when the same person again tries to reconnect with you.
Here are Tips to Follow if Your Ex Reaches Out to You
1. You must not get disturbed in these circumstances. The sudden arrival of your ex might bring some complexities to your life. You must keep calm and analyze the situation calmly.
2. Understand your ex’s motive. You should try to understand the ulterior motive of your ex’s arrival and take a wise decision.
3. Try to prevent the ugly situation. Things are bound to get ugly if you are dating someone and suddenly your ex decides to regain the lost relationship. You must act accordingly to the situation.
4. Never get too excited. You must hold your emotions so that you do not commit any mistakes again.
5. Never give away your true feelings. Your feelings will give an idea to your ex regarding your true intentions. This will give your ex an upper hand in getting the previous relationship back on track.
6. Try to act normal. Acting normal will however surprise your ex and can give you a perfect edge in the situation.
7. Remember the reason for your breakup. When your ex is trying to make ways to again re-enter your life. You must always think about the things that broke you apart in the past.
8. Never act fake. Show your real emotions to your ex so that they can judge your correct frame of mind.
9. You don’t have the same feelings anymore. It is said that your feelings expire with time. You are bound to lose the feelings for a person you once had in life.
10. Say no to rebuilding. You might once again attempt to regain that relationship again but some cracks cannot be healed.
11. Think with a clear mind. The sudden arrival of your ex might confuse your mind. You might need to think with a clear mind and go for a conclusive decision.
12. Don’t go for any kind of expectations. Greater expectation often leads to even greater disappointments. So keep your expectation to a minimum when your ex suddenly contacts you.
13. Be clear about your thoughts. You must be clear about your thoughts and objectives regarding the current situation so that you don’t fall into misleading situations.
14. Never try on and off the relationship. Things look ugly if you are in a constant phase of hot and cold relationships. This kind of relationship is truly toxic and should be avoided at any cost.
15. Never make decisions in a haste. Things might take an adverse effect on the decisions that are taken in such situations.
16. Never let yourself a second choice. You are unique and deserve to be someone’s true love rather than a mere replacement.
17. You deserve a better person. Never look back in the past if things were not good. It is always advised to find a new person who will treat and care better than your previous partner.
18. Never be quick in judgments. A thorough judgment in all aspects should be considered before jumping to any conclusions.
19. Go for some advice. If you think the situation is too complicated then consult with your friend or close ones to get the correct approach to proceed in this case.
20. Take some time to respond. This will give you an upper hand as your ex will think you have deliberately ignored his/her presence. Now the terms will be dictated on your will.
21. Cut all ties. The best option is not to go for any response at all.
These steps will help you to solve all your concerns regarding the mysteries of the untimely association of your ex again.