It is a good practice to show your wife your allegiance and faith toward her. She should be able to believe that you always have her covered, that she can depend on you blindfolded. That is the loyalty she expects from you, her husband.
Such loyalty ensures a relationship to go a long way. It creates depth, understanding, and trust – which lie at the root of a strong relationship.
Any relationship must keep growing stronger as time passes.
Try the following tips to show your wife your loyalty to her and make her feel at ease.
Be authentic in your relationship. Be as open and natural in whatever you do or say. Transparency is something that helps build trust. It also ensures that you get to know each other far better.
Being authentic is also a way to show her that you are being as natural as you are. That will also help her to trust you more than ever. Never try to ‘act’ someone or something that you aren’t in reality.
Do not do things that you have to hide from your partner. Why do anything that you have to hide from anyone at all? More so, never do something that you will have to hide from your wife. If and when she finds out it will devastate her. And if you have done something that you think needs to be hidden, at least own up to your wife.
That way, even if she is hurt, she will respect you for having been transparent about it. Of course, be sure you never do it again.
Do not judge your partner for their every action. Being judgmental is in itself a vice. Never judge your partner too much. It will create a very uneasy atmosphere in your relationship and may even lead to divorce and heartbreak. Instead, be more understanding and accommodating toward her ways, even if it isn’t your way.
Promises should be kept. However small be your promise to her, on whatever, make sure you keep it. Rather than break a promise, don’t make it at all.
As a husband when you make her a promise and keep it, she will always perceive it as your honesty and respect for her. She is bound to love you more. And the fun part is that she will do the same for you.
Show respect to your wife. Respect is well received only when it is also well given. Expect respect from your wife only if you respect her as well. It is a two-way path. Your respect for your wife shows the kind of trust you have in her.
Smile at her; caress her; touch her affectionately; kiss her on her forehead. These things taper down to show your respect for your wife. She will love you a lot more.
Avoid running from your wife. Never think of running from your wife. It is immaterial whether she is strong or weak. If you can be with her, it will finally melt her, it will make her trust you more, and also make her see how loyal you are irrespective of her strength or weakness. Your patience and constant unfaltering presence are bound to win her over.
Never stop working on yourself. Always keep working on yourself. If you feel it’s difficult to eradicate the vices and weaknesses you have, just let it be for now. Rather, concentrate more on developing and enhancing your virtues and strengths further.
This way your positives will outgrow your negatives. And along the way, you will be pleased to rediscover yourself. In the long run, it will help you and your wife as well.
Hold your wife’s hand while communicating with her. Believe me when I say this. When your wife and you are talking take her hand in yours. Whether or not she notices it then, some time or the other, perhaps even later, she will appreciate this gesture of yours as your loyalty and nearness. She will do the same with you unknowingly.
You should know the line. There is a line and a limit to everything. The same goes for your marriage. You two may be closer than ever. Still, know very well that in anything you are doing, even if you feel you don’t have a limit, your wife’s got a limit. Draw the line there. It helps keep a marriage going. Even she needs some space.
Let her know that her presence is important. Whether verbally or by gestures, let her know expressly that her presence in your life is one of the most important things that you desire and cherish.
It paves the way to a very healthy relationship and also makes the marriage last longer while making it stronger with each passing day.
Do not fear telling the truth to her. Whatever you may have done, never fear being truthful with her. She is the only one who deserves the truth from you. It became her right the moment you two made your vows. Your nuptials tied you both to this truthfulness automatically.
It is as essential as you must tell her the truth always. Okay, you may be diplomatic in the way you say it. However you do it, it simply must be the truth. Truthfulness will make your relationship last longer for sure.
Every important moment of your life should include your wife. Whatever you achieve, however big you become, whoever you rise to be, always include her in every important moment of your life. It doesn’t matter whether or not she helped you in achieving that moment or not.
Her being in your life has been important. These are the moments for you to include her and show her that it is really important for you to share your important moments with her.
Feelings for your wife should not fluctuate. If you love your wife, it cannot fluctuate. Sometimes you love her more, sometimes you love her less – that shows what a selfish person you are. If you are true to yourself, and to your wife, your love for her will be constant, it and will only keep increasing at a constant rate.
To better your future, plan it. Always plan your future together. It shows how loyal and true you are. It makes your love for each other deeper and also opens up a rich, deep, and beautiful relationship out onto the surface. Planning together keeps your love growing stronger as well.
Your commitments should not be broken. Never stray away from your commitments. Breaking your commitments will automatically lead to heartbreak. Sticking with commitments shows a very strong character and will also prove your loyalty to your wife.
Be yourself. Just be yourself. Never have any ‘put-ons’, avoid wearing a mask. Just being your natural self will prove to your wife the true you, the person she fell in love with, the person she loves, and will continue to do so. Never try to be anyone else but yourself.
Express your feelings to your wife. Letting her know more often that you will be there for her, come what may is a great way to show your loyalty. It will make your marriage go a long way, too. You must believe and also make your wife believe that you will be by her side through every thick and thin. This is a great way to express your loyalty toward your wife.
Do not share your wife’s secrets with others. Your wife lets you in on her secrets because she trusts you. Never share her secrets with anyone else, come what may.
Your ability to keep her secrets will make her see you as a more dependable and reliable person. In the process, she will love you more as she perceives this quality in you as your loyalty and allegiance to her.
Getting involved with the opposite sex might hurt her. Even if it is a harmless flirt, remember that’s how you view it when you are indulging another woman to be involved with you. She may take it seriously anytime. Even she may be vulnerable but never showed it. And why indulge yourself I such trivialities? You have a loving wife in your life already. Your actions may hurt her immensely.
Always lean on your wife first. Whenever you are in some trouble or problem, just lean on your wife for that moral support she is so willing to provide you always. It will make her feel stronger, and she will see this as your faith in her.
Thank her for her presence. Be thankful for her presence in your life. And express the same to her. It will make her feel your love for her. Thanking her also helps sweeten the relationship further and makes your love grow stronger.
Have control of your temptations. Everyone has temptations. Your ability to control yours will prove to your wife the character and strength you have. She will respect you more for it as she will deem this for your fealty toward her as well.
Do not take her to be an option. Never treat her as an option. She must be a priority. She is a priority in your life. The most important one, too. It proves your faith and trust in her.
Show her affection physically and emotionally. Always express your affection for her both physically and emotionally. Just a touch, a hug, a smile, a peck on the neck – all these, and more, actually show how important she is to you. She will also feel that you are more into her than anything or anyone else.
She will love it if you are an active listener. Whenever she talks, listen. If you are an attentive listener to whatever she says, and you interact actively it shows the importance you give her. She will love you ever so much more. So go ahead and listen patiently and actively whenever she talks to you.
Practice empathy. Empathy is something to practice. It helps a marriage going. It is not an excess in either positivity or negativity. It is sympathy in a more toned-down manner.
Never let your passion die for her. Keep your passion for her alive in every which way you can. It will make her more passionate about you. Passion and sex are different concepts, though. So never mix them up. Your passion for her will erupt from the depths of the feelings you have for her.
She will reciprocate at least equally, if not more. And it will result in both of you remaining loyal to each other.
Discuss your problems with her. Discuss every problem of yours with your wife. Try finding a solution together. This shows the trust you put in her. She will be there always and will do her best to find a solution with you. After the problem is solved, the feelings are so great for both of you.
Pass positive comments to her. Whenever you can pass her a positive comment or a compliment. Be true about it and believe what you are saying to her, about her. It will make her cherish these little moments all her life. She will view these as your fealty toward her, and it will make her love you even more.
Take her family out for dinner. Interacting with your wife’s family is a really good thing in strengthening your marriage. Go a step further. Take her family out to dinner.
Your gesture will be appreciated by your wife and her family. And the family will like you even more. It will make them feel more appreciated and wanted by you. In the long run, it is this very same family that will support you as well. They will value your presence in your wife’s, their daughter’s, life.
You will be noticed and valued by your in-laws more as a family than just their daughter’s husband. And the feelings and love will be mutual gradually.
Let her know that she is your priority. If you make your wife the priority in your life and express the same to her, be sure that she will reciprocate the same way toward you.
She will treat you as her most valued possession – something you should not shy away from, believe me. She will always be proud of you. It shows that you both are loyal toward one another and dedicate yourselves to loving each other more.
This will make your wife adore you and dote on you. Go on, let her spoil you a little. It doesn’t hurt to be a baby once in a while.
Try to understand her wants and desires. Try to find out what your wife’s wants are, what she desires. It goes a long way if a husband can identify the wants and desires of his wife. It shows how much he knows her, how much he loves her.
And it pays off because the wife also reciprocates similarly. It makes a marriage more sustainable and stronger. It develops mutual respect and appreciation and makes the relationship one of deep-rooted love and values. It makes the bond stronger overall. What better way to show your loyalty to her than this one little thing.
Sometimes take permission from her. You may be independent in every way, and you take your own decisions, you do what you want.
However, it never hurts to take your wife’s permission sometimes before you do something. It will let her give you more space freely. It will let you have more of the much-desired independence that you are seeking. And it will show your wife that you value her as well.
A great way to show your loyalty toward her. She will love you even more for it and you will like taking her permission, once you get the hang of asking her for it.
Do not let her down. Never let her down ever. Letting her down hurts so bad, even you won’t ever forget it. Whatever happens, even if you cannot keep your word or her expectations, at least talk to her well in advance. Let her know the circumstances.
She will help you overcome it all. Finally, you will see that you are living up to her expectations. You will feel stronger happier and you will be loving her even more. She will be proud to have a person like you as her husband.
Never talk negatively about her. Be it with her, or in front of others don’t ever talk negatively about your wife. Firstly, it weakens your position everywhere. Secondly, it hurts her badly. Thirdly it is a great cause for heartbreak and divorce. She may have vices, but isn’t she human, too?
You should discuss these vices of hers and find a way to eradicate them – together. Help her become stronger. She will love you more for this gesture.
And she will outgrow herself. It will show her that you are loyal to her. And she will show her allegiance to you in more ways than one, and that too in the most unexpected ways at that.
Tell her directly if she is hurting you instead of breaking your loyalty. When she hurts you, instead of breaking away and taking back your loyalty, tell her that she has hurt you. Discuss with her how you are being hurt. Maybe it has never been her intention to hurt you. You will see the fun ways you two can make each other stronger, and also how amusing it all was.
Try to live up to her expectations. Maybe she expects a lot from you. You feel that way. Stand in her shoes and look at yourself. Maybe you are worth being expected much from. So, always try to live up to her expectations. Trying itself matters. It doesn’t matter much if you cannot do it all. She will love you just for trying. That means so much more to her.
Apologize when at fault. It never hurts to apologize. Asking for forgiveness is a great virtue, especially when you are at fault. Try it and see for yourself. Your wife will not only forgive you (another great virtue), you may be amused by the ways she forgives you. And it expresses your allegiance for your wife.
Do not keep secrets, if she gets to know you are doing it, she will get hurt. Why keep secrets at all from your wife. Let her know everything. It will save her from being hurt. And it will save you both from any heartbreak at all. Being open and transparent will make your wife love you far more than you expected. It will build up a deep relationship based on love, honesty, and loyalty.
Love and love more, the only way. You love her. She loves you. Just saying, or knowing that is never enough. No one can have enough love. Keep loving her more and more. She will do so in her way, with you, too. The more you love her she will reciprocate too.
It is a way to express that there is no one else in your life. It also shows your fealty toward her. And it is a great way to keep your marriage outgrowing itself for the better. Let the blossoms of your love, loyalty, strength, passion, and so on, show expressly.
Feel proud that your love for her is steadily increasing. Bask in her increasing love for you. Keep the passion and romance kindled. Never let it wane. Rekindle it, boost it, and rejuvenate it all. Both of you will be ecstatic with the love you shower upon each other always.