When you tie the knot and get into wedlock it gets utterly significant to understand the love language of your partner and you should reciprocate accordingly.
How well you understand the language of romance and how finely your husband considers to have you by his side with all his love and affection is all an art of Understanding.
Here go 100 tips to understand husband!
Both of you should communicate with respect for each other. The day you miss that out, your relationship will fall out of track.
He should know through your words and gestures that he is the most important person in your life.
He may be habituated to some manners that you dislike and you may be typically different. Ignore those petty reasons that may cause a disturbance.
His respect is yours so always make his head high with the dignity that he deserves and don’t let anyone tarnish his image.
Look for reasons to laugh together and try to find those things out that make him go gaga.
It is important to understand his feelings. He may be a tough coconut or a soft cake, you need to decide to bring him closer.
Always give him a chance to change for the better. Give him suggestions and let him adopt new methods for a healthy life.
Encourage your husband to fulfill his dreams. Be a smooth companion to help him reach his destination.
When you guys go for an outing together, keep your problems aside, and just have fun!
Show some interest in his interests and acquire some knowledge so that he enjoys four company
Always be a great listener to understand him. Let his peak his heart out with you.
Appreciate his effort to keep you happy. His hard work and sacrifice should be acknowledged.
Give him space in the sense that he can go out with his friends or participate in an activity without you being tagged along.
Speak to him when you sense something wrong. Try to study his emotional gestures when he’s sad, disturbed, or happy.
Create family goals together that need to be achieved. Have plans with your partner and kids on teamwork within the family.
You can just peel off your pride and apologize when you know you are wrong.
Do chores for your husband that makes him happy. If he’s the dependant man then settles his clothes and helps him find his things.
Be warm and considerate when he comes back home from work. Let him relax before you swarm him with some issues.
Your love is a shield that can’t be broken so defend him against all allegations and don’t let anyone speak ill about him.
Give him a foot massage or a back massage if he’s exhausted after a day full of work.
Don’t judge with the results of his trials. If he has the aim to do better in life for u and your family then always be by his side.
You need to be warm and cuddling in bed as well. Try out different ways to surprise him.
Speak proudly about him in front of others in his presence and absence. He would love to be appreciated by you.
Always honor him when kids are around. Let them respect him in the same way that you have for him.
Don’t bore him with suggestions everyone. Be with him when he needs you, he may want your company without even talking.
Consider giving him good opinions when he seeks help from you.
Don’t be a fake supporter who agrees or disagrees to make him happy. Have your own opinions and be assertive. Point out his mistakes if he’s at fault.
Don’t insult him with harsh words when you are arguing with him. Don’t lose your temper to such an extent that would kill your relationship.
Don’t pounce upon hour husband to find reasons for his bad mood. Give him time and space.
You may have bad habits that annoy him the most. Work on those and make changes.
Don’t hate his relatives and speak ill about them. Respect them even if you don’t want to have great conversations with them.
Speak good about his parents if he attached to them. He will expect you to accept them.
Do small things for him like you make some coffee in the morning, let him take a nap, iron his clothes, and talk to him.
Go out for dinner or have a private time without kids and problems. Speak about your love life.
Be nostalgic and speak about your past and how the two of you did silly things together.
You can initiate sex at times. He will love to follow.
Consider his presence and treat him as the most important individual even when you are with friends or relatives.
Try eating one meal at least together. It beings the joy and binds you better.
Stay fit and active so that he stays attracted.
Dress your best when got guys go out together. Look good for him.
Write small notes for him and leave them around the house and in his pocket. He may love the expression and thought that you value him.
Don’t let those three words ‘ I Love You’ fade away. Confess your love and leave no stone unturned to prove that as well.
Give him time with his family. Let them have their own time and you don’t need to be there always.
Be thankful to him if he kicks a bad habit for you or makes an effort to change his ways to make you happy. Appreciate that with him and also in front of others.
Watch a funny show together and at least have one common interest that makes both of you lively and participating.
Keep his wallet, phone, and keys in one place if he’s messy with things. Give those to him when he looks around.
Encourage his goals and plans. Be the helping hand and a constant supporter. Be the critique who corrects him.
Cuddle him and just be physical without being sexually active. Pamper him like a baby and make him feel super comfortable with you.
Be the wife who is irresistible and is missed. Let your presence have an aura of comfort.
Be good to your kids and raise them with good values. Your spouse should be a partner in this.
Confront him if you hear something wrong. Don’t stay silent and show your way of protest.
Stop whatever things you are doing and especially your mobile phone should be kept aside. Speak to your husband.
He may be good at music or sports or some activity. Praise him and admire him for that.
Avoid complaining and rather find a solution.
Give him a good kiss when he leaves for work or you leave for work. Greet him with the same warmth in your kiss.
Treat his friends well as you can invite them for dinner and be good to them.
It’s good to have your own space in your things and social media. Keep your phones with yourselves and your password is to be private.
Men hate to be nagged so speak to him if there is some case that matters to you. Don’t keep nagging him and fighting with him for petty issues.
Raise kids together like a team. Your children should have the two of you as an idol and epitome of love and a perfectly happy relationship.
When you go out shopping buy stuff for him that he needs. Come back home and show that with excitement.
Flirt with him and appreciate him when he looks good. That spark of a relationship shouldn’t die after marriage.
Go for a vacation and spent quality time together. Have fun-to-do stuff that revives your energy and just be happy when both of you are present.
Celebrate your husband’s successes and make it grand when he’s happy. Keep it private if he’s an introvert.
Birthdays and wedding anniversaries are special occasions that need attention and constant reminder of togetherness. Keep that special and celebrate always.
Manage the finances at home the way he likes it. Don’t be a spendthrift or a miser. Be economical but provide all needs of the family.
Be the shoulder who understands him in and out. Feel his mood and behave accordingly.
He may share secrets with you so keep those and build up that trust carefully.
Share your secrets with him and make him your confidante. Take suggestions from him and accept the good ones.
Be friends before every other relationship. Have fun together, talk about serious matters, and constantly support each other.
When he comes to say sorry and tries to please you in different ways, accept his effort, and live him back generously.
Make his best meal and serve that with delight.
Trust him and have faith in his efforts. If he’s a hardworking man then make sure you respect that and show your love and trust.
Let him be vulnerable and express his heart out with you. Let him speak of his relatives, his past, and his mistakes. Let him cry and come out of the shell of those conventional ideas of manhood.
Compliment him and do that often to encourage him.
Don’t be bossy and keep pointing out faults. Don’t give him punishment for not finding the reason for your annoyance.
Be the mysterious wife who’s unpredictable at times but in a good way. Surprise him and show him your different colors of love.
His compassion towards others should be a matter of pride for you.
Have fitness goals together like you can join the gym together or go out for a walk together. This ‘ together’ will soon turn into ‘ forever’.
Read a book together and have the curiosity to guess the next episode of a show that you watch together.
He’s a husband and a man so he, not your best girlfriend. Accept that and don’t expect him to behave like her.
Be patient to understand him better but don’t always expect him to be the 20-year lad with you. His preferences change with age and you change along.
Your husband may not be a great fashion advisor but he for sure would guide you on your attire. Take that.
Let your man know that he’s sexy anyway despite his growing belly, bald head, and not so fit figure. Give him time to make those better and let him be comfortable in his skin.
Husbands love to be alone at certain times. They want to sit and do nothing or do many things alone so let him have his own time.
Your man may not be the perfect partner for gossip. Men tend to listen to halfway so if he doesn’t add, let him be there. Share it with your friends.
If he likes to express his love on social media then consider that let it be that way.
Men don’t understand the subtle ways that women adopt to teach them something. They simply go confused.
If your man is trying hard to please you then appreciate his efforts and express it.
Your love for your husband should be unconditional. Let him know that and express it with pride.
Accept him for what he is. Avoid trying to change him always. You loved him the way he was so don’t try to make him a different man.
Don’t compare your husband with other men and show him that he needs to change. Men are egoistic by nature so he may dislike comparisons.
Confront him and gently point his faults. Anger is not a solution but it rather scars your relationship.
Let him do things for you and your kids and appreciate that even if he’s not perfect.
Don’t always be the problem solver of his life. Consider his decisions and help him but don’t take decisions on his behalf.
Keep your work at work and don’t bring that in when the two of you have your own time together.
Discuss your financial matters and your plans to work those together.
Be a good human being with humility and compassion. Let him admire you for your good values.
Keep your promises and remember what you have assured him of.
Don’t unreasonably expect your man to do everything for you. Don’t trouble him with your demands.
Understand his needs and express your desires too. Interdependence brings glory and comfort.